No matter how long you’ve been on a spiritual journey, an external measure of your spirit level maturity can be helpful. In this episode, we’re discussing an important shift that can create more opportunity, expand possibilities, and give you more momentum.


How you feel, embody, and respond to what’s happening around you — especially when there’s tension or polarization — is a key indicator of how far you’ve come.

When we feel stuck, we often feel like a victim, like our circumstances are others’ fault, like life is happening TO us. Victimhood comes from a lower frequency resonance; your perspective reflects that.

A wonderful shift happens as you clear patterns and your resonance rises. Instead of pointing the finger, you embrace your own role as co-creator in your reality. You realize your personal accountability for what happens in your reality; you feel compelled to look inward to see what’s contributing to your experience of your reality.

As you realize you’re having a significant impact on your reality, your perception of it can shift.

Someone who is relatively spiritually immature doesn’t feel very empowered. But as you clear frequency distortion patterns, you gain distance from your thoughts and emotions — and you can then question what filters might be coloring your perception of your reality.

Finding the weakness within allows you to grow, adapt, and transcend.

This personal journey may give you a higher form of compassion for other people’s actions and behavior as well. You can see their patterns and challenges and realize that you’ve been down that road yourself. You know how hard it is. You can also recognize the challenges a person faces without taking on their burdens.

You may not always hit the mark in your behavior, responses, and emotions — and that’s OK. Instead of beating yourself up, ask what else needs to be cleared. Look within, figure out what caused your response, and ask what you can do to be better the next time. You’re human, and it’s a process.