Intimacy and freedom can seem at odds with each other in relationship. Many people seek closeness and stability and fear giving the other full freedom for fear of losing them. Learn how it’s possible to have both in a relationship of a higher level order, and in fact how giving the other full freedom can create even deeper levels of intimacy.


  • Traditionally because of the previous levels of consciousness, and cultural and lineage distortions patterns, the feminine has valued intimacy because of its association with closeness, stability, security and the masculine has valued freedom, so the two ideas seem at odds with each other and potentially threatening to each other–the masculine being wary of intimacy because of having to give up freedom and therefore being bound, and the feminine reluctant to give full freedom to their partner for fear of being left or abandoned.
  • Please note that in this context, “masculine” and “feminine” are being referred to in terms of the energetic a person most identifies with, not the gender of their body.
  • If your consciousness is high enough, both intimacy and freedom are not only possible to have in a relationship but they’re required in order to have a relationship of a higher level order, commensurate with the new consciousness.
  • Once you have released enough distortion patterns, you don’t need another to love you to feel complete. You are complete on your own so another may complement you but is not required to make you feel complete.
  • When we get to the point that we become internally strong enough that we can release the other, allow them to have full freedom, then both people are liberated. The other not feeling bound or trapped, and ourselves from our own fear.
  • When we are internally strong enough to allow a partner to have complete freedom, both parties can be living in a state of full exuberance for life which allows for a significantly greater sense of intimacy because there is a higher level of honesty, clarity and accountability without a fear of being abandoned or the need to control.
  • There are two additional massive unexpected benefits when both are free (watch the full episode to find out more).
  • Do we need to clear all of our distortion patterns before we enter into partnership, especially a higher level one that we want to attract? Watch the full episode to learn the answer.
  • As your frequency vibration rises there is an exponential increase in the number of opportunities of attracting someone already at your level, someone who is very open and will entrain up to your level very quickly, or someone of an even higher order than you.