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Episode 183: Journey Through The Feminine

For this episode’s GFC, click here. When I was growing up there weren’t a lot of models of the feminine that I identified with. I really didn’t understand the whole bombshell, overtly sexual and seductive thing that I saw in many posters and movies, I never played coy...

Episode 182: You Don’t Need A Cape To Be A Superhero

For this episode’s GFC, click here. I always wanted a cape when I was kid. It seemed like having one would be a significant step closer to being able to fly— at least in my 6-year-old logic. Superman could fly. HE had a cape. So obviously having a cape meant...

Episode 181: Holding Your Space In Intimate Relationship

For this episode’s GFC click here. When I was little, I really loved the movie Cinderella — the old school one from 1950. I mean there were singing mice, plenty of swooshy skirts and a fairy-tale romance. What was there not to love?! It was the first time I’d...

Episode 180: Peek-A-Boo! I See ME?

For this episode’s GFC, click here. If you’ve ever been around kids you’ll probably have noticed that there’s this magical age where when they cover their eyes so they can’t see you, they actually believe that you’re not there any more. Cover their eyes and...

Episode 179: What The Heck Is Raising Your Frequency Resonance?

For this episode’s GFC, click here. Did you ever play the game when you were a kid “If you had 3 wishes what would they be?” For some reason one of my wishes was that I always wanted to speak 10 languages fluently. Kind of ironic since languages are not my strongest...

Episode 157: The Key To Living Life With Confidence

For this episode’s GFC, click here. I remember the day that I met Chris’s friend Shawn. He is a very smart, funny guy who has a good sense about people. What was unusual about him was he had an ease about him that seemed greater than how old he was and how...

Episode 154: The 5 Most Important Things About Frequency Work

For this episode’s GFC, click here. When I had my first part time job, one of the things I’d save up for was going to restaurants with friends. Back then, the Gazette (the only English newspaper in Montreal) would publish a new restaurant review every Friday....

Episode 153: Upleveling The Pain Body

For this episode’s GFC, click here. When I was about three, I was playing in the sandbox that was in our little playground, when I found a single wooden match. I’d never seen one before.  The tip was a pretty color so for whatever reason, I drew with it on the...

Episode 152: What’s The Deal With Past Lives

For this episode’s GFC, click here. Many of us have heard of past lives. It seems like whenever I’ve heard of people going to psychics they’re often told that they were someone famous, of influence and known now in this present time. How can all of...

Episode 150: The Journey To Awakening With An Intimate Partner

For this episode’s GFC, click here. I went to an all girls school for elementary and high school. My parents specifically chose this because they wanted my sister and me to have a sense of ourselves before we started being around the distraction of boys and...

Episode 149: Overcoming The Empty Well Of Loneliness

For this episode’s GFC, click here. When I was a little kid I didn’t know what it meant to be lonely. Whenever I was alone, I’d play by myself — immersed in whatever it was that I was doing, whether it was spinning in my pink tutu (LOVED that thing!)...

Episode 148: Transcending Challenge & Suffering

For this episode’s GFC, click here. It was just after midnight and I was sitting in front of my computer at our dining room table. This was in the very earliest days of me giving frequency work, even before there was a “Spherical Luminosity.” I was...
Episode 147: The Foundation of the Illusion

Episode 147: The Foundation of the Illusion

For this episode’s GFC, click here. When I was a kid, there was a board game that came out that was called “Trouble.” My sister and I didn’t have this game but boy did I want to play it. It had this cool dome thing in the middle that you...

Episode 146: The Power Of Thought

For this episode’s GFC, click here. When I first watched “The Secret” in the 90s, my mind nearly exploded with what was possible. Wha’??? We can actually shift our reality?!! With our thoughts and emotions?  Seriously?!!! So being the person I...

Episode 145: Cultivating Momentum – Mastering The Basics

For this episode’s GFC, click here. When I was growing up in the 70s, there was this thing in my favorite playground that I loved. It was a huge, heavy metal disc, with upside down U shaped metal bars on it that you’d push as you ran around the perimeter....

Episode 144: The Good Ol’ Days

For this episode’s GFC, click here. When I was growing up my mom was really good at having prints developed of the photos that my dad took of the family.  We’d look through them, reminisce and laugh about the time we had. She’d then write the date on...

Episode 143: Embodied Brilliance – Susie’s Story

For this episode’s GFC, click here. Have you ever had this experience? You head off to a retreat or seminar, thinking that you’re going for a particular purpose, but ultimately what actually unfolds is so much more than you expected. That happens A LOT for...

Episode 142: Living Your Brilliance

For this episode’s GFC, click here. When I first started on my spiritual journey I read a lot to try to figure things out. From what I could tell, there were a few general themes, including hidden knowledge of things in the unseen realms, the illusion of reality...

Episode 141: The Ultimate Relationship

For this episode’s GFC, click here. I was 16 when I went on my first date ever. I remember thinking hard about what I was going to wear. I tried on different outfits (I really didn’t have that many but there was still somehow a lot of deliberation)...

Episode 116: What Is Different About Pure Presence?

When I started on my spiritual journey, my mind was chattering away at me.  All. The. Time.  Sometimes what it was telling me was actually helpful, but often it really wasn’t.  I had read about what the Zen Buddhists call “no mind,” where the mind comes to a complete...

Episode 113: Where Do Habits REALLY Come From?

I used to have this terrible habit of chewing on the ends of pens or on pen caps. It definitely wasn’t because I was hungry and it’s not that they tasted good—I just didn’t even realize I was doing it (and probably ingested quite a bit of plastic as a result....

Episode 108: Identity – What Does It Mean To Be You?

What did you want to be when you grew up? When I was about six, I thought I wanted to be a doctor. That was primarily because I was given the Fisher Price doctor’s set which I thought was very cool. You could hear someone’s heartbeat through the stethoscope and you...

Episode 107: Embodied Acceleration

Whenever I’m learning something new, whether it’s a new recipe or a new piece of software, it can be really helpful to see what someone else has done to even know what the possibilities are. We can learn a lot from other people’s stories, and...

Episode 106: A Gauge Of Spirit Maturity

“Moooooommmmm… Vanessa’s touching me! You said she wasn’t supposed to cross the line and touch me!!!” My sister and I didn’t fight that much compared to some siblings, but we definitely had our moments—and at those times I...

Episode 105: Fundamental Authenticity

Have you ever changed the way you talked or how you behaved when you were with different people? I had a friend who was exceptional at this. People loved her because she shifted who she was so much to mirror them, it’s like they felt like they were talking to...

Episode 104: Neutrality – the Real Deal

Have you ever been sensitive to what people thought of you? When I was growing up, I was always very aware of people’s emotional states, and even more so when it related to me somehow. I was a pretty sensitive kid. So when someone had an emotion that was strong,...

Episode 103: What’s Love Got To Do With It?

Have you ever found that sometimes the people closest to us can be our greatest challenges? When Chris and I first started working together in our real estate business in San Francisco almost 17 years ago, we’d been married for almost 5 years by that point and I...

Episode 102: Losing The Fear Of Loss

Have you ever been in a relationship, a job, or a project longer than was beneficial for you because you were afraid of losing it . . . even if you sorta kinda didn’t even really want it anymore? I sure have. When I was growing up, my parents did mostly...

Episode 101: The Most Important Tool in Your Toolkit

I grew up in the 70s and one of my favorite shows when I was little was “The Mutual of Omaha’s Wild Kingdom”. I was fascinated by all the animals. There was one episode that particularly stuck in my mind—the one on gorillas. In one scene in that...

Episode 100 Soul Connections

Have you ever met someone for the first time and felt like you’ve known them forever? There’s a certain ease and familiarity that’s apparent right away. Kind of like an old friend you haven’t seen in a very long time, even though you know you...

Episode 99 A Different Perspective On Awakening

When I was a little kid I really loved to swing on swings. The higher they would go the better it was—and even though it was a little scary sometimes, at the very apex of the swing just before the drop, it felt a whole lot like flying to me. Pretty much all summer at...

Episode 98 Productivity – Spirit Hacks

When I first read Tim Ferriss’s “The 4 Hour Work Week” many years ago, that was the first time I’d heard of the term “hack” — a way to do something way faster and better, sometimes in ways that are counter intuitive. Since then,...

Episode 97 A Key Piece of Ancient Wisdom Clarified

When I was in my early twenties, I was very intrigued by the mystical and started delving into Eastern religions to try to find some answers. I started reading about the idea of the “illusion” or maya that is mentioned in the Hindu and Buddhist...

Episode 96 Trauma In The Physical Body

When I was in third grade, one of my best friends fell while skiing and had to have a cast on her leg. I have no idea why, but I was intrigued by the whole cast thing. The crutches looked like they were fun to swing on. People wanted to sign your cast and draw things...

Episode 95 Auric Fields – What You Need To Know

One of the first times I visited Sedona I was there for a Drunvalo Melchizedek workshop and I was surprised at how many crystal shops there were and how many folks were offering auric field readings. Upon reflection after having been there a few times now, I’m...

Episode 94 The Power Of Sound & Music

There was a very brief period in my spiritual journey where I crossed paths with a Hindu guru who also happened to be a woman. On three Sunday mornings Chris and I drove a couple of hours from our home in San Francisco far into the East Bay to check out the community,...

Episode 93 Detoxifying The Mind

When Chris and I first started on our exploration of the Tony Robbins world as part of our trajectory of personal growth, we took the plunge and went out to his resort in Fiji to do his Health and Wealth Mastery programs. As part of the Health Mastery experience we...

Episode 92 Up Close & Personal Part II

When I first started on my spiritual journey, I really didn’t know what exactly I was looking for. I just knew that I was intensely curious about how the world really worked. I had a feeling that there was something out there in the unseen, something far greater than...

Episode 91 The Sinister Side of E-Z

For some reason I’ve always been fascinated by hammocks. To me, there’s something that seems so leisurely about them. When I imagine a hammock, it’s always swaying beneath cloudless blue skies, in the shade of some beautiful trees or a pretty palapa,...

Episode 90 Phoenix Rising – Power & Sovereignty

When I was growing up, I used to love to read Greek and Roman mythology. The drama of all of these gods, magical creatures, and humans in all these extraordinary circumstances and having to rise above impossible odds definitely lit up my imagination. One of the...

Episode 89 An Act Of Power In Turbulent Times

When I was growing up, both my parents were very non-traditional.  When we were at home in Montreal, my dad was very much not like his friends and peers he grew up with in the ’40s and ’50s, who were much more Chinese in the sense that they were not...

Episode 87 What Hides In Plain Sight

I grew up in a close family.  My parents were involved and active with my sister and me. They’d take us camping (that random Chinese family in the various Canadian campgrounds in the 70s when it was pretty much all white people–that was us!), and we’d go...

Episode 86 How To Have Stability In Times Of Chaos

There were some kids I knew when I was growing up who just loved roller coasters. The steeper the drop, the tighter the curve, the more they loved it. I was NOT one of those kids. I liked the rides where it felt like you were flying, like those flying swings that went...

Episode 85 Your Hidden Superpower

When I was a little girl, I REALLY wanted to fly. I’d run as fast as I could, with my arms outstretched down this little hill behind the apartment building that we lived in. I thought that if I could just run fast enough I’d actually take off. There were moments...

Episode 84 Special Abilities – Who Needs Them?

When we were in New Zealand a few years ago it was the first time I ever actually saw someone shapeshift. For real. We were on a small bus with a group of 12 people and our guide was a very powerful (although we didn’t know who she was at the time) Maori elder who was...

Episode 83 When It’s Legit To Quit

The way I was raised, quitting was never an option. It didn’t really matter if something wasn’t fun, fulfilling or sometimes even productive—I simply had to finish what I started. Usually, “because I said so.” This wasn’t something unique to my family, either....

Episode 81 Behind The Helper Frequency

  Of the various aunts and uncles on both sides of my parents’ families, my father’s only sister was the one I knew best when I was growing up. Every summer she’d come visit for a few weeks and live with us. She had no children of her own and my mom (who...

Episode 80 What Is Time?

I don’t know if this happened for you, but when I was little, I seemed to have So. Much. Time. In fact, the time between birthday parties, Halloween, Christmas—or basically anything fun at all—seemed like an eternity. And then something about that changed. The older I...

Episode 79 Speaking The Language Of Animals, Plants & Crystals

I’ve always had a love for crystals and trees. When I was little, I used to sing to the trees and I’d imagine them whispering and singing back to me. And I loved collecting pretty rocks, especially if they had little sparkly bits in them. Those were definitely my...

Episode 78 Starbound – What You Need To Know

I don’t know about you, but I remember when the movie E.T. came out. It was the first time I went to a movie without my mom.  I was totally terrified of what ET might be. To me, aliens seemed like something creepy, and for sure that’s how they were usually...

Episode 77 What Is Control Anyway?

When I was growing up, my dad would always look at any situation, assess what the worst case scenario would be and then did the work to plan for that possibility. He was never afraid to put in the work required to prepare for that possibility, and in many ways it was...